Why Do You Put Off What You Want to Do?

[Super]

Hey everyone,

Have you ever found yourself wanting to do something but consistently putting it off? You know you need to do it, you want to do it, yet something holds you back. Maybe it’s labeled as laziness or procrastination, or perhaps it just doesn’t feel right. Today, we’re diving into why we struggle to do what we really want to do and how to start taking action without delay.

Here’s an interesting idea to consider: the concept of "laziness" might not really exist. Often, what we perceive as laziness is actually a sign that something deeper is at play. Perhaps we haven’t found the right motivation, or our actions aren’t aligned with our true needs. Understanding this can lighten the burden of everyday choices and help us approach our challenges with greater empathy and insight.

Throughout my journey, I’ve come to understand a powerful truth: every action we take is driven by a need. Nothing we do is random; it’s all about satisfying our needs, whether consciously or subconsciously. Understanding this can significantly lighten the burden of everyday choices.

Think about it—every action, every emotional reaction, every dream or goal we have is crafted to fulfill some need within us. These needs are natural and essential. However, sometimes our methods of fulfilling them can be destructive if we choose actions that don’t align with our true needs.

Let me share a personal example. I used to struggle with maintaining my Instagram presence. I felt I needed to do it for career growth and income. But digging deeper, I realized my true need wasn’t about Instagram—it was about security. I mistakenly linked Instagram to financial security. Once I understood this, I found better ways to fulfill my need for connection and enjoyment in my work.

So, how do you know if your actions align with your needs? It’s about tuning into yourself. Instead of diving straight into an action, pause and ask yourself: What need am I trying to fulfill with this? What will I gain from it emotionally? And most importantly, do I truly need this action to feel how I want to feel?

This introspective approach can revolutionize how you make choices and lead to more fulfilling actions that genuinely satisfy your needs. Remember, it’s not about avoiding action but choosing the right action that aligns with what truly matters to you.

Let’s explore this further with a metaphor: imagine you’re hungry and have two options. One is to grab a snack from your fridge—the quick, easy fix. The other involves a journey to find a specific fruit in a faraway place. Both can satisfy hunger, but only one aligns perfectly with your craving and satisfaction. Which one would you choose?

By understanding and aligning your actions with your true needs, you can navigate life more intentionally, achieving a deeper sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. It’s not just about what you do, but why you do it. So, take a moment today to reflect on your actions—are they truly serving your needs? If not, what adjustments can you make to live more authentically aligned with what matters most to you?

I hope this perspective helps you on your journey towards greater self-awareness and fulfillment. Stay tuned for more insights on this channel, and don’t forget to subscribe! Let’s embark on this journey together towards a more purposeful life.

[Anderson]

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